Saturday, November 17, 2012

Public Displays of Affection


Yesterday (Ha, really it was three weeks ago! It's taken me a bit longer to get back to this post.)was my first day off for the Bayram holiday. While other foreign staff decided to head out on a Blue Cruise on the Aegean, I decided to stick around Tarsus, Mersin, and Adana for the break. I figured not only do I have papers to grade, but I also have yet to really explore these three cities.

My first unplanned day quickly became jammed packed.  It started with a trip to one of the local mosques. On Monday of this week, Rüştü, one of the Turkish staff members, gave some of us a historical tour of Tarsus. Our last stop was at the mosque, and we were extremely lucky as the imam there let us inside. There were only a handful of people, so we were given an impromptu tour. Additionally, we were led to a special area where officials and heads of states usually pray.

Historically, people have been killed while worshipping, so a special area was built. It is an elevated area about eight feet high with a narrow staircase that leads to a platform. Most of the current officials don’t use the area any more as they claim they want to be closer to the people (sounds like a politician), but my guess is that the staircase is a bit too steep!

After the tour on Monday, Donna and I were able to arrange a time to come and take pictures during the day with better lighting as our original tour was in the evening. We met Wednesday morning only to find that we were the only ones there – no imam and a heavily locked door.

We decided to take pictures of the outside of the mosque and figured something had been lost in translation; after about an hour, an elderly gentleman found us and led us to the opposite side of the mosque to a grave. It was obvious he wanted us to see it and attempted to explain its importance to us. We have no idea what he told us, but in the end we asked if we could take his picture. He obliged and posed stoically and military like.

Donna had a brilliant idea that she would set the timer on her camera and get all three of us in a picture. She set the timer, we posed, she joined us.  Just before the camera clicked, the gentleman’s arm quickly went around my shoulder into a tight grasp. A picture was taken. Donna checked the photo and noticed it was a bit dark. We tried again.

My gut was a bit hesitant, but I figured what the heck. It’s just one more photo. Again, Donna set the timer, we posed, she joined us.  His arm quickly came around my shoulder this time a bit tighter. Picture taken. Donna checked again, and it’s still too dark.

As I’m telling her in English that I’m not posing again, the gentleman attempts to kiss me on the cheek! Ewww! “Yok, yok, yok!” I yell. (A negative response a bit more stern than “No.”)  Ahhh, yes a fun start to a busy day. As I write, I honestly don’t know where he ran to, but he was nowhere to be found as we headed to the front of the mosque.

However, an imam had arrived and unlocked the doors. We were led inside and allowed to take as many pictures as we wanted. A payoff well worth the unwanted kiss…..well, maybe not, but Donna seemed to get a good chuckle out of it. It was amazing to be inside the mosque with our cameras during daylight hours. We profusely thanked the imam and went on to take some pictures of daily life on a Wednesday in Tarsus.

From there…tennis lesson at noon, Mersin at 3:00. Camera shopping and dinner at Subway. Yes, I did enjoy a spicy Italian sandwich with a Belgium beer. Delicious!  Beer at Subway needs to happen in the States. I have to say day one of break turned out to be more than alright…despite the kiss.